Schedule of Events
Thursday
Early Bird Registration
Suite Floor
Check in for the party and make things official. Don’t forget your negative COVID test proof and ID. This time slot is only for people attending Early Bird Orientation. If you are not attending orientation, please come back at 2 PM.
Early Bird Orientation
Suite A
Learn about consent basics, negotiation and scene etiquette. Highly recommended for party newbies and those looking for a refresher.
Registration
Suite Floor
Check in for the party and make things official. Don’t forget your negative COVID test proof and ID.
Newbies & Veterans Mixer
Suite A
A chance for newbies and party vets alike to mingle before the party heats up. Chat with Oasis organizers, members of our security team, event hosts and other party veterans about anything you might want to know. Highly encouraged for newbies and welcome to everyone.
Spanko Speed Dating
Suite A
Whether you’re a top, bottom or switch, you can make new friends and potentially meet your match at this fast-paced icebreaker.
Welcome Mixer & Registration
Suite Floor
Meet the Oasis team, relax and get yourself checked in. We’ll have food and snacks available and, of course, room to play. Don’t forget your proof of a negative COVID test and ID if you need to register.
Spanko Game Night
Suites A & B
From Catan to Uno, we’ll have a range of games for people to play, maybe with spanking consequences? Who knows what will happen!
Open Suites
Suite Floor
Our suites are officially open. Play with friends old and new. Suites are open all night, but monitored by staff until 2 AM.
Late Registration
Suite Floor
Check in for the party and make things official. Don’t forget your negative COVID test proof and ID.
Friday
Registration
Suite Floor
Check in for the party and make things official. Don’t forget your negative COVID test proof and ID.
Spankos of Color Brunch / Play Party
Suite B
Share experiences, meet, play and have a bite with other spankos of color.
Classes, Workshops & Demos
Various Locations
Are you brand new to the scene and curious about scene culture and party etiquette? Perhaps you’re an experienced bottom interested in switching? Wondering how to wield a specific implement? Maybe you just love to see a demo with your partner? Whatever you’re here for, our three-hour block of classes has something for everyone. No sign-up is required. Just come on time and bring a pen and paper if you want to take notes.
Oasis Orientation
Meet other newbies while learning about consent basics and scene etiquette. Highly recommended for party newbies and those looking for a refresher.
The Art of Adjustment: Applying Feedback as a Top
Small adjustments can make a big difference, and good tops respond well to feedback. This class explores how to effectively receive and apply feedback from bottoms, with a primary focus on refining technique and mechanics. We’ll also cover adjustments to positioning, tone, intensity and other elements that can elevate your scenes.
Focus on Implements: Paddles
Paddles are among the most iconic of spanking implements, and none are more classic or ubiquitous than their little cousin, the hairbrush. This class will provide extremely detailed and in-depth information and demonstration on this class of implements, including selection, care, safety and a comprehensive array of techniques for effective usage. They run the gamut from very easy to use to very tricky, and we will look at all of them.
Bring any particular questions or troublesome implements you might have, and StrictDave will be happy to provide personal advice and coaching.
Negotiation 101
Everyone knows negotiation is the bedrock of consent, but did you know it’s also one of the most reliable ways to create meaningful and fulfilling scenes? Geared toward new and experienced players alike, this class will break down everything a comprehensive negotiation entails from start to finish, helping you connect deeply with your play partners.
The Art of Inducing Small Feelings: Spanking and Ageplay
This class explores making space for small feelings, with or without spanking. We’ll look at how to build scenes with emotional depth, playful tension and vulnerability, and how embarrassment, anticipation, rules and ritual can shape the experience. We’ll play with blush-inducing phrases, expectations designed to earn an angsty eye-roll and the little details that invite a pretty pout or a wide-eyed, red-cheeked, face-covering silence.
Along the way, we’ll explore the difference between feeling small and being made to feel small, how spanking can heighten those dynamics and how to create room for tenderness, mischief and intensity without losing the emotional thread. Come ready to think beyond implements and technique: this is a class about the feelings underneath the scene, the dynamics that bring them to the surface and the delicious vulnerability of someone else, or yourself, feeling small.
Strapping 101
Come learn from Kelley May as she teaches the mechanics of effective strapping, including positioning, body movement, rhythm, angles and communication to help you deliver a more confident and enjoyable experience for everyone involved.
Roleplay
This class will provide you with a litany of ideas, principles and considerations for incorporating role-playing into your play sessions. Topics will include sample scenarios, planned vs. unplanned RPs, documentation and props that can add dimension to your RPs, and tips for not only staying in character oneself but also helping play partners stay in character and overcome the “I feel stupid when I try to role-play” roadblock that some people experience.
F&F: Improper Tea Party
Suite A
A party exclusive for women, nonbinary and gender non-conforming folks to play. Come to our secret speakeasy where entrance requires a password and what’s in the teapots is between you and no one else. It’s just a tea party for proper folks. Nothing nefarious or untoward happening.
British Detention
Suite C
Detention…but make it British and scary, in the good way. Enjoy a short disciplinary session with the formidable Stephen Lewis, tailored to your preferences. Advance sign-up required.
Roleplay Roulette
Showroom
A captain spanking a principal? Princess Leia being spanked by a fireman? Stranger things have happened! Enjoy this twist on Uniform Top, where tops and bottoms alike come in costume. This event is for everyone, tops, bottoms and switches of all genders. If you like to spank or be spanked, come through.
Registration
SHOWROOM
Check in for the party and make things official. Don’t forget your negative COVID test proof and ID.
Spanko Wonderland
SHOWROOM
Spanko Wonderland at Oasis means options. This year you can look forward to the Vendor’s Fair, icebreakers, free food, a cash bar, play spaces and a photo booth.
Open Registration: You will also be able to register at this time. Check in for the party and make things official. Don’t forget your negative COVID test proof and ID.
Late Registration
Suite Floor
Check in for the party and make things official. Don’t forget your negative COVID test proof and ID.
Open Suites
Suite Floor
Enjoy full use of our three party suites. Play and socialize with friends old and new. Suites are open all night, but monitored by Oasis staff until 2 AM.
Saturday
Registration
Suite Floor
Check in for the party and make things official. Don’t forget your negative COVID test proof and ID.
Oasis School of the Arts
Suite Floor
Set your alarms, because it’s time for class! During this immersive roleplay, you’ll enjoy three classes with your friends, all with creative lessons. Be sure to stay out of trouble. You might get sent to one of the deans.
This event is open to any registered guests looking to bottom, but advance sign-up is required.
Registration
Suite Floor
Check in for the party and make things official. Don’t forget your negative COVID test proof and ID.
After School Pizza Party
Suites B & C
You know what they say: spanked at school, spanked at…after school. Time for guardians to pick up their wayward charges and for everyone to enjoy pizza, the only thing that can bring people together.
Oasis Finishing School
Suite A
Our initials may be old fashioned, but manners and good etiquette are timeless. Our OFS staff will ensure our students leave with the knowledge required to navigate the world with sophistication and polish.
Note: This is a new event we’re trying out. Advance sign-ups are required and space will be very limited. This is the perfect event for those who enjoy roleplay and rules, particularly in an environment where discipline is the focus over punishment. This event is currently full.
Registration
SHOWROOM
Check in for the party and make things official. Don’t forget your negative COVID test proof and ID.
Photos & Cocktail Hour
Showroom
Take some photos at our photo booth and grab a drink before dinner is served.
Formal Dinner & Dance
Theme: Regency Ball · Showroom
Just what it sounds like! Enjoy our delicious buffet before dancing the night away. There are also booths for play in case someone can’t behave during dinner. Tsk, tsk.
Open Suites
Suite Floor
Spanking shenanigans à la carte in our spacious suite. Suites are open all night, but monitored by Oasis staff until 2 AM.
Sunday
CP Court
Showroom
Take your friends and foes to task over minor, and often hilarious, grievances in court, hosted by Strict Dave.
Littles’ Party
Suite A
Explore your little side at this party just for littles. Open to all bottoms, and tops/caregivers can pick up or join their little ones during the last half hour. Advance sign-up is required for this event.
Boys & Bois aka B&B
Suite A
A suite party exclusively for men and gender non-conforming people who bottom, and tops of all genders to play. Hosted by Alaska Rae.
Open Suites
Suite Floor
Spanking shenanigans à la carte in our spacious suites. Suites are open all night, but monitored by Oasis staff until 2 AM.
Please note: From 9–9:45 PM, Suite A will be closed for setup of the Family Vacation event. The other suites will be open as usual.
Family Vacation Roleplay
Theme: Cotillion · Suite A
The tops are away, so the bottoms will play! No sign-up required.
Note: This event is open to anyone looking to bottom, however all tops have been preselected. Bottoms, please come on time at 10 PM to check in and select appropriate wristbands.